What irritates me about rugby discussions these days is this massive passing of the blame onto the ref. To me, you should treat the ref like any other condition you can't control. For example, the weather. If the weather is bad you can't blame it for your loss, you blame your inability to adapt to conditions. Same situation should apply to refereeing if you're complaining about the ref after a loss then you weren't good enough. Simple as.
You're seriously saying that when things like this happen, the ref shouldn't take any blame whatsoever? (I know it's rugby league, but whatever.) The original decision for offside which caused the penalty was perhaps forgivable, but when you look at how blatantly offside Leeds were at the penalty kick, and how there's no way they could have been onside and got to the ball, how the ref didn't even go to the TMO, how the other two touch judges didn't even have a word with the ref, then you honestly believe that the ref(s) shouldn't take any blame for this result? You can say that the Bulls weren't good enough to have won, but the fact is that they had already pretty much won. In league, if you're in the lead in the 79th minute, in possession with six phases, and 40 meters out, you've won the game. It was only for the referees making two horrible mistakes that cost the game for the Bulls.
Today, something that happened that I'm annoyed about led to a 10-point swing. The Glos hooker (Edmonds) was playing winger in the backline and kicked it on into the corner. He wouldn't have scored a try since the fullback was too close, but a Quins player (Wallace) checked him anyway. Wallace didn't hold his run - he deliberately barged into Edmonds and sent him to the floor (which is a professional foul and he could have been yellowed). It was as blatant as a penalty could get on the field, but the touch judge didn't notice it, despite being stood a meter from it, because he was ball-watching. (Not even sure what the ref was doing.) It was so close to half-time that even if Gloucester didn't sink the penalty, the ball would be so deep into the Quins half that they would have been unlikely to have scored a try. Instead, what happened was that the Quins fullback kicked it back, and a Gloucester player (Martyn Thomas) threw an interception try, which IIRC was converted. I agree that Thomas wasn't good enough to have done something that silly, but the point is that play should never have gotten that far. What should have been 3 points to Gloucester, ended 7 points to the Quins, because two referees missed a blatant foul. Whether this lost the game for Gloucester, it's hard to tell. Gloucester lost by 3 points, but perhaps Quins would have come back harder in the second half had the first half ended the way it should have. So I won't say that it cost Gloucester the game. What I will say is that it had a big effect on the game's outcome (as a 10-point swing will do) because the refs took their eye off the game.
And what makes you think that refs cannot take criticism? In any other job, people get told off, even fired, for making mistakes on a regular basis. Why should refereeing be the one job where you get to be free from criticism? I agree that it's silly for people to be blaming referees for a few small mistakes. Sometimes it's impossible for referees to make the right call - trouble on the other side of the scrum, offenses that happen in the middle of a ruck etc. But that doesn't mean that a referee should get complete immunity from criticism when they have bad games.
I'm not even saying that Quins profited from Barnes' bad game. In fact, I daresay that Quins may have gotten a bonus point had Barnes had a better game. The fact is that he missed far too many wrongdoings, particularly in the scrum. He let collapsed scrums continue (which is dangerous might I add), he let players get away with improper binding (mostly Glos players tbf), he even failed to recognise a player losing their binding and keeping themselves upright by putting a hand on the floor, despite being on that side of the scrum! He was awful at officiating the breakdown too. He also often blew up for non-offenses. A quick read of the Harlequins forum shows that they were upset with the ref too, so this isn't completely blaming the referee for the result - more for how the game panned out.
On a side note, I think Easter deserves an England call-up. He may or may not have been the form England no8 in the past, but he's maturing very well, and has been way above all the other England number 8s this season. He could yet make the 2015 WC (Shaw managed 38...), and there's still a few six nations to happen between then. Have Morgan/Waldrom in the squad to come in, and they may usurp him within the next couple of years, but the national squad doesn't get anything from us ignoring those in form.