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<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (Juan VdS @ Nov 3 2009, 04:33 PM)
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No being legally bound does not, which is why you get legally, therefor holy in god's eyes, and the last one (hopefully) lovingly bound in marriage.[/b]
So our feelings are not holy in "God's eyes"? If I take my girlfriend and promise her eternal love, without a contract backing this up, I am committing some sort of moral misdemeanor? What about the millions of people that, despite being "legally married"; cheat on each other...?
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God commands us to obey the law of the land (except in the instance where it commands other than what
he has made clear in the Bible), now if the law of the land says you are married when you confess your undying love, well then so be it but you're missing out on a great party if you just do that and have no reception
Our feelings get us in a lot of trouble sometimes, just ask everyone who find themselves with unloved/unwanted children or spouses because of feelings. Getting married legally is a sign of maturity and responsibility, no back door option.
God knew this and that is why he commanded us to do it.
Saying you are going to stay with someone forever is pretty useless considering all our track records with the truth (me included)
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He commands you? How? He made it clear in the Bible? How? When? Where?
No. Society commands you.
How did people get married centuries ago? With a lawyer around? Don't think so.
Anyway, I suppose I should be thankful to God. Because of his
commandment, my Father gets richer every single day in Divorce Litigation (and in 2 years time I'll bo doing exactly the same).
As for people that found themselves with unwanted children, that's not because of feelings -- they were retarded enough to ignore something called anticonceptives.
Oh, and the Church should not judge me. Really. At least I don't live off the people that devote their <strike>money</strike> lives to the Cause. Nor have I given shelter to the worst criminals the world has ever seen. Nor have I systematically murdered millions of innocent people in the last 2000 years.