Imo there's a pretty big gulf between being married to someone that happened to share the age of someone involved in the story plus getting into some trouble through drink driving + nicking a bottle offences in the past, and being willing to violate someone in a life changing fashion. I don't think Cips needs to, or should feel a crumb of shame, it's the ***** that turned up outside his house and effectively harrased his wife that should be having a touch of introspection and, with respect, maybe you ought to as well, purely because of the world of difference between the (alleged) offences.
His is/was an absolute ***victimtit, but you went too far for me