Awesome, sounds like you guys have a similar network of EA Rugby 06 players as we do. We've got a definite top 4, who's positions alternate with fleeting form bursts, then there's 3 or 4 division 2 guys, some experienced, others learning.
Have had a few comps, mainly S14, odd 10 Nations, Euro Trophy etc to fit everyone in. Like the idea of having qualifying matches to get into a Tri Nations, and the World Shield. Back in the JLR days we had a trophy we played for, noting multiple try scorers etc as a kind of leaderboard.
Not quite there yet with '06 as some finishing of competitions to fill trophy cabinets being done, but once it has multiplayer will again take off for us.
The ultimate is what you just experienced, meeting new faces and playing styles, really spices things up having a new fish in the water!
One day us kiwis will hopefully organise a get together or two, either that or stay sitting on our arses till it's online...