I agree. And some posts are intended to rile up certain posters, and then when those posters do make a remark, they either go in like a swarm of bees and attack with stingy remarks or revert back to "It was just tongue in cheek" or "I meant it sarcastically" etc.
That is actually typical of trolling and bullying behavior; the bully makes nasty remarks and then later, when it finally dawns on them (or it is pointed out to them) that their remarks have offended people, they jump into their fallback excuses
"Why do you take everything so seriously?
"It was just a joke!"
"You need to lighten up."
"Where's your sense of humour?"
"Oh I was only kidding"
All these statements are typical responses from bullies when called out on their offensive remarks. In dismissing it all as a joke, they are doing two things that are a dead giveaway to bullying:
- they are showing a complete lack of remorse for the offense they gave caused;
- they are blaming their target for being offended and daring to object to it.
Having spent a fair part of my working life as a teacher, I can testify that this is exactly how we were instructed to recognize bullying and identify the culprits.
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Anyway, enough of that from me
The more I look at the actions of this player, then more I think that an example needs to be made of him. He went straight for the eyes, and continued to go for them, even fighting against other players trying to pull his arms away. It was a deliberate, wilful, almost frenzied attack on the eye of his opponent.
I'm not sure I would want to have that player anywhere near me if he was in the opposing team. Clearly there are violent and deep seated issues with this player.