I feel like at the scrum I don't have an issue because the last thing we want is another scrum because the scrumhalf knocked the ball out of the 8's hands. Scrums are supposed to be a quick reset and are anything but that. At the ruck though it's ridiculous.
See, even at the scrum - as a SH, I hate it.
Keep each SH on their side of the ball (or maybe increase that distance to 0.5m if you insist), and apply the "no tackling off the ball" law to SHs at scrum time, and it's absolutely fine; it's just that the SH and #8 need to have... the skills of a SH and #8.
If you want the SH to pass off the scrum, then you put the #8 between the ball and the opposing SH - that's plenty of room for any half decent SH to get the ball away - if he isn't, then it's because he's choosing not to do it cleanly. Choices SHOULD have consequences.
If you want the #8 to pick and charge, then A] he has a free mulligan if he screws up - because the nearest defender is both 5m away, and unsighted. B] if he picks up cleanly, he has a 5m run-up before hitting the smallest defender in the opposition line.
Controlling a rugby ball at the back of a scrum is a skill. Picking a rugby ball up off the floor cleanly is a skill. Shaking off a much smaller defender is a skill.
Or at least, those things used to be skills - not anymore.
Passing the ball from the base of a scrum is a skill. Picking up the ball, and taking a step or two before passing, whilst being hassled is a skill.
Or at least, those things used to be skills - not anymore.
Hassling your opposite number is a skill. Hassling the #8 is a skill.
Or at least, those things used to be skills - not anymore.