"Uso, I can't speak for other pacific Islanders but most Samoans growing up experience domestic violence if not at home surely at relatives or friends places. Not only in Samoa but where ever Samoans live."
Actually this ain't entirely true - and its not happening at 'most' Samoan homes or a relative or freinds place for that matter. That comment maybe correct for a few of you - but this behaviour doesn't happen in 'most' Samoan homes. It's only happening in a minority of dwellings, yet as a Samoan we seem to be associated with it just because we are Samoan.
To say that it happens wherever Samoans live?? Damn just paint this stereotype to all the Samoans around the world. It's like saying wherever there are african-americans, no-matter where they live in the world - people will still get raped...that's so ignorant uso - As a Samoan, I know many good men out there that are Samoan. Good husbands, uncles, brothers -who know how treat woman with respect. I've never seen it in the home, or at a relatives or freinds house. Fortunately that's the reality for a lot of Samoans. It just doesn't happen. Whether we are Samoans in Samoa, Australia, NZ, USA, England and wherever else - it's not taking place in 'most homes' whatever the timezone.
This behaviour is ancient times stuff and shouldn't happen anywhere whether you are Maori, Samoan, Fijian, Tongan and wait for it.....European or Palagi. (Yes it happens in the homes of these people...and you thought it was a Samoan problem, palagis do it too)
Reading the respective stories...where did it say in the reports that Brian Lima was beating his wife or another female and that they came to her rescue? Anitelea seems to have a love for fighting while in social settings as one article read, doesn't that ring a bell that he might like to throw his weight around? Also the Tuilagi brothers were intoxicated. Wouldn't a drunken person be prone to this kind of aggressive behavior.. I wonder.
hen again I'm sure you guys are right...Maybe because this is what happens when Samoans are around. The story goes that the drunken Tuilagi brother fought off Brian Lima because he was physically abusing a woman.
Yep that's what went down that night because thats what happens 'wherever Samoans live'.
I don't know about you guys but we are civilized people. I certainly haven't seen this behaviour in Falealupo...