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[Serge]

unplanned, odd and formative things tend to happen between the ages of 20 - 25.

some of which might include university, travelling and orgies.

if you can experience these together -- fantastic.

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Brilliant. :lol: :lol:

Without pussy footing around I'm gonna redeliver what others have said. You ask someone to marry you when you have been together for only 3 months and you are still young kids? Idiot. Although I found the wanting to have kids thing even more moronic, as at this stage it will **** your lives up. Dam Emo.

 

[Ripper]

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unplanned, odd and formative things tend to happen between the ages of 20 - 25.

some of which might include university, travelling and orgies.

if you can experience these together -- fantastic.

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Brilliant. :lol: :lol:

Without pussy footing around I'm gonna redeliver what others have said. You ask someone to marry you when you have been together for only 3 months and you are still young kids? Idiot. Although I found the wanting to have kids thing even more moronic, as at this stage it will **** your lives up. Dam Emo.
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Will you marry me?

The way I see it, if the thing goes bust, your stuck paying Child Support and she will be stuck with kids. The chances are neither of you will have any formal qualifications, so you'll be working long hours/on **** pay. Getting married at this sort of age happened in the 30's, but theres some crazy stat like 40% of marriages end in divorce in todays modern world (Could've made that stat up, I have the memory of a goldfish with alzheimers), and those are mainly "older, experienced" people's marriages not a couple of teenagers. I have nothing against your little union, but kids IMO is a no no.

I say buy a Dog.

 

[St Helens RLFC]

Captain America > Ripper

 

[DC]

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unplanned, odd and formative things tend to happen between the ages of 20 - 25.

some of which might include university, travelling and orgies.

if you can experience these together -- fantastic.

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Brilliant. :lol: :lol:

Without pussy footing around I'm gonna redeliver what others have said. You ask someone to marry you when you have been together for only 3 months and you are still young kids? Idiot. Although I found the wanting to have kids thing even more moronic, as at this stage it will **** your lives up. Dam Emo.
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Good call

if your busy payin child support and that kinda ****, you wont be able to pay for it, especially while earning minimum wage.

 

[Canadian_Rugby_Guy]

HEED THE WORDS OF CAPTAIN AMERICA! he's right, please, I know she means alot to you, but you have your life ahead of you, focus on building your future so that that little house you dream of will come true. It's great to have a goal, let it fuel you to get that stability which others are talking about, WAIT. If you want to stay engaged, then great, but earn degree or some kind of training first. It WILL be better in the end. I beg you to be patient.

 

[O'Rothlain]

Don't take all this talk as negative against your girl, necessarily. But there are several of us who are past your stage and have had similar situations and know what the path your about to embark is like.
You want kids and a house and will need transportation and food and nappies and a night out every-so-often to keep your sanity which requires a babysitter...then there's childcare, and clothes and education and college funds all the while you are paying for your education (hopefully because your f___ed like a 50 year old porn star if you don't get a degree) and her educaton and the mortgage and the car loan and the creditcards.
Ahhhhhh! It overwhelms me, and I'm nearly 10 years your senior. It's a competitive ruthless world my friend. Take life slowley and don't be in such a rush for the advanced experiences of life.
I'm not objected to your marriage, but after that, put the flipp'n brakes on and pace yourself. The price for 2 together ends up being more expensive than 2 seperate...it doesn't seem like is should be so, but it is.

 

[St Helens RLFC]

Just to back up O'Rothlain GP, none of us are being critical, just offering advice.

 

[Rugby_Cymru]

The price for 2 together ends up being more expensive than 2 seperate...it doesn't seem like is should be so, but it is.
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:lol:
Yeah, that's SO weird, isn't it?
Someone explain that to me, please!

 

[Goth Power]

Many different words of advice, all considered helpful.

Thanks for your views.

But, just because we are engaged doesnt mean we are going to get married in the next 6 months. Maybe 2-3 years depending on money really.

And if we do start trying to a baby then it wont be until next year at the earliest and it will be highly thought about and we are not going to start until we are financially secured etc.

Although I was very suprised how well my mother and step-dad took the news.

Just my Dad to tell now.

 

[shtove]

If you've got it, you've got it. Don't let others slow you down. But the point of marriage is your commitment to children - and they're difficult buggers to defend against, with inside passes you wouldn't dream of. Good luck to ye both!