I think we need to accept that in the professional era, we shouldn't be so adverse to fellas moving around the provinces a bit.
It's not quite the same as the GAA, where your club is who you* are and your livelihood is not dependent on it.
At the end of the day, I'd rather have a fella leave us and head down the road than have to head across to England or further afield. Its only a wee drive to mammy and daddy (and visa versa) - and for mates too. There is not that many professional sportsmen in Ireland - I'd rather them be happy at home than forced abroad - I think as my folks get older I'm appreciating what that proximity (and being able to pick up a set of car keys and just go) can mean more and more.
*One of the greatest footballers our county, and many would say the country has ever seen, has never quite been forgiven for transferring from a neighbouring parish to another neighbouring parish. I'll not name names.