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<blockquote data-quote="Gay-Guy" data-source="post: 74318">A girl!!! Bloody fantastic!!!&nbsp; Good on you mate!My first is a girl and to tell you the truth.....she will (just quietly) always be our favourite unofficially.Man....your life will change....good on ya man!!!Vulnerable you will feel at times as you watch her grow up.&nbsp; A big learning curve being a daddy.&nbsp; Also she will make you find strength you never thought you had.A big change in our relationship with your partner and roles, expectations and all sorts of crap will start to come up out of nowhere.&nbsp; The key to surviving is to imagine it like this......you are a solo dad who has to go and work to bring up your daughter and there is some female friend (your partner) at home who has decided to help out and DO YOU A FAVOUR by looking after your girl.&nbsp; So when you get back from earning money at work later in the day you go see your female &quot;freind&quot; who has kindly voluteered to look after her eveyday for FREE and thank her for it as you now take over.&nbsp; If she continues to &quot;help&quot; you during the evening then continually &quot;thank&quot; her for helping you out and comment on how reat she is and how you could never bring up your little girl without her help.If you beleive in the bible it says that God made Adam a &quot;helper&quot;....you are the BOSS and all the responsibilities of it go with that tag....except you have a helper giving you a hand.Keep that perspective and your new addition will not be a burden.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Gay-Guy, post: 74318"] A girl!!! Bloody fantastic!!! Good on you mate! My first is a girl and to tell you the truth.....she will (just quietly) always be our favourite unofficially. Man....your life will change....good on ya man!!! Vulnerable you will feel at times as you watch her grow up. A big learning curve being a daddy. Also she will make you find strength you never thought you had. A big change in our relationship with your partner and roles, expectations and all sorts of crap will start to come up out of nowhere. The key to surviving is to imagine it like this......you are a solo dad who has to go and work to bring up your daughter and there is some female friend (your partner) at home who has decided to help out and DO YOU A FAVOUR by looking after your girl. So when you get back from earning money at work later in the day you go see your female "freind" who has kindly voluteered to look after her eveyday for FREE and thank her for it as you now take over. If she continues to "help" you during the evening then continually "thank" her for helping you out and comment on how reat she is and how you could never bring up your little girl without her help. If you beleive in the bible it says that God made Adam a "helper"....you are the BOSS and all the responsibilities of it go with that tag....except you have a helper giving you a hand. Keep that perspective and your new addition will not be a burden. [/QUOTE]

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